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Carley Broder, our own carbro, has died February 25, 2014 R.I.P. carbro


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#16 Claire

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 05:38 AM

Terribly sad news.  She will be missed.  



#17 Balanchinomane

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 05:59 AM

Very sad news. She had such a generosity of spirit. My condolences to her family and friends.



#18 PeggyR

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 06:26 AM

That’s very sad news.  My condolences to her family and friends at home and here on BalletAlert.



#19 Helene

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 08:13 AM

This is such devastating news. It was through our beloved ballet that I knew Carley, virtually and in real life.

 

Carley was a mensch. May she rest in peace.

 

My deepest condolences to her family and friends and the extended ballet family.



#20 Michael

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 08:21 AM

You couldn't ask for a better friend.  Very kind, loving, tactful, intuitive, a feminine touch and lovely to be around at a show.  She'd just get what you got, even with disparate people and be so moved when something was beautiful that it helped you understand the beauty.  Always in harmony.  My plan on her passing is to see the shows doubly well - I know she would have loved them.  That's what I thought last night.  She's got to see them through our eyes and feel them in our hearts now. 



#21 meunier fan

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 08:47 AM

I was shocked to read this.  How often we (or at least I am apt to) forget that/how time passes.  I met Carley in what for me was - truly - another world.  One belonging - as she does now - to time.  In every way it was a privilege.  I sit here remembering the joy of her many kindnesses whilst we shared the excitement of our enthusiasm.  We were friends of a shared passion.  The power of that gift was heady.  I can feel its air even now. The memory burns in the sincerity of her warmth. It is one I could never care to forget.  Bless you, Carley.  Bless you for ALL.  May you not only rest but smile in peace.  



#22 sandik

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 10:44 AM

 My plan on her passing is to see the shows doubly well - I know she would have loved them.  That's what I thought last night.  She's got to see them through our eyes and feel them in our hearts now. 

 

What a lovely idea -- thank you for sharing it here.



#23 Dale

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 11:25 AM

I was shocked and saddened by Carley's passing. She was very generous and welcoming, with a keen interest in ballet and knowledge on other topics. Many of my ballet experiences in the past 15 years included chatting with Carley during intermissions, before shows, after shows, on trains to shows smile.png  I remember one time fondly when she and Susan met up with me in Washington DC to see the Suzanne Farrell ballet. And then we waited for that dreaded early-morning train back up to NY. We exchanged views of the ballet we just saw, ballet we loved, our lives and even weird neighbors. She will be greatly missed. My condolences to her family.



#24 Marga

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 03:03 PM

It's so nice to read the remembrances of those whose lives intertwined with Carley's, as mine did. I am still in shock and slept restlessly as thoughts of Carley entered my dreams and were my first thoughts on waking throughout the night. Her sister Betsy has posted the coordinates for Carley's memorial service:

 

"Carley will be honored and remembered at a 2 p.m. service on Sunday, March 2 at the Plaza Jewish Community Chapel, 630 Amsterdam Ave., NYC."

 

The chapel is located in Carley's beloved Upper West Side - UWS - where she lived. She was passionate about ballet, politics, just causes, pets, and her neighbourhood, among other things. The love in her heart will no doubt be felt at the Jewish Community Chapel on Sunday afternoon.



#25 Pamela Moberg

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 04:44 PM

I am very sad to know that Carbro is no longer with us - always kind and welcoming. As long as I have posted on this board - since 1999 - I have read her posts  Unfortunately I never met her in person,  but sometimes one gets this feeling: this person I would like as my best friend. That is just how I felt about Carbro. May she rest in peace. My condolences to her family. 



#26 Paul Parish

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Posted 26 February 2014 - 11:33 PM

I met Carley through this site, we became such friends. As with so many others she met through here, she suggested to me that we get together when we were in the same town as an outgrowth of the friendship made through here-- since her posts were so smart, reasonable, learned, kind, generous to the dancers, so full of wit and information and knowledge --she'd seen a lot of shows I never saw, come to love dancers i'd only heard of -- Rene Estopinal! the dancers she loved, and hte things she loved about them, are really a touchstone for me in extending and confirming my own taste. She had insight. It's WONDERFUL to have someone  you feel loves the art  as much as you do and can understand the intensity of the excitement you feel when something really beautiful has happened -- 

 

I was missing her already as her posts dwindled down to a precious few. Like QUiggin, I was always on the lookout for her posts; I always wanted to know what she thought, about nearly anything.

 

She set a standard for how to be a balletomane. her generosity to everyone on this site was wonderful to see. ALexandra must know best -- but even from my perspective, it was clear how much WORK she did to keep this site companionable. What a wonderful person. What a Mensch! 

 

I wish I could go to New York for the memorial. I'll dedicate my class to her  on Sunday.



#27 dirac

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Posted 27 February 2014 - 02:54 AM

Carley's obituary in the Times. RIP.

 

Carley was a devoted Upper West Sider, living near Lincoln Center to feed her love of all things ballet. A gifted communicator, Carley championed justice and equality.

 



#28 AlbanyGirl

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Posted 27 February 2014 - 04:57 AM

My deepest sympathy to Carley's family and to her friends, at BA and elsewhere.  I really enjoyed her posts and it was evident she was a committed contributor and a devoted balletomane. I  will read some of her posts tonight in her honor.  I will also think of her Saturday at the NYCB.  Rest In Peace, Carley.  



#29 atm711

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Posted 27 February 2014 - 07:04 AM

Rest in peace Carley.  I will miss your warmth and insight.  I sorely regret that I did not meet you personally.



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Posted 27 February 2014 - 08:27 AM

 It's WONDERFUL to have someone  you feel loves the art  as much as you do and can understand the intensity of the excitement you feel when something really beautiful has happened -- 

 

 

That was a key thing about Carley - she would go all quiet when she loved something, there would be a moment of silence when the curtain dropped - and then a solemn appreciation. Temperamentally she was not about criticizing things or dancers; when she didn't like something, she'd articlate, sure, but I never felt she liked to, she'd rather forget it, that wasn't what interested her.  It was the opposite - she was truly happy, deeply happy when a show was great.  La Danse.  It's a very rare quality, to have a heart like a tuning fork that resonates truly at the highest pitch when something truly fabulous evokes it.  That resonance is a kind of note from a Vedic hymn.   In NY she split her time between ABT and NYCB, no partisan.  And as Paul says it felt like she'd seen everything.    

 

Recently, one memory (I particularly remember - we talked about it last year) - a single performance about 2009 of "Scotch Symphony" at NYCB in the spring with Robby Fairchild and Katie Morgan, kind of an odd interpretation, they made the ballet a little story, much more than usual - but we just sat there stunned when it was over it was that good.  And then Morgan got sick and I think that was about the end of her brief career  here.  Anyway, I just think of that show and of Carley's reaction as part of this.  That's the specific moment I was thinking of when I wrote the above.  And of course this is just my memory of what she was like, everyone will have experienced her in their own way.




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