Helene, on Jul 2 2007, 11:51 AM, said:
....one of the men who worked there snatched it out of my hands and held it to his chest like a baby that I was trying to abuse, and said very haughtily, "This copy is reserved." ....
Oh dear. Well, I don't doubt your horrible story for a moment, Helene. I know of other folks who had similar experiences with one of the fellas in particular (not Joe, who was quiet & very kind). As I said, it was a microcosm of today's BalletTalk - people who feel very passionate about the art of ballet and, sometimes, let their emotions get the best of them.

For example, as I was quietly looking at books, one of 'the fellas' bawled-out a group of Argentine middle-aged ladies who had traveled to NY especially to see Bocca at ABT. One of the poor ladies made the mistake of stating 'I think that Bocca is better than Mr. XXX'...who happened to be the favorite of the guy-in-question, who blasted from behind the counter: "Madam, you are an ignoramus of the highest order!" The ladies quickly scuttled out of the shop without making a purchase. I & other customers felt like crawling under a table.
One thing is for sure -- it was NEVER boring to visit the shop.
Edited to add: Although The Ballet Shop was a microcosm of BalletTalk, it lacked moderators...which it could have used every now & them.