I guess I'm not allowed to sleep at night if I want to keep up on this thread...
I was happy Bouder said something because she has always positioned herself as a leader. Often it's easy to be that leader, her posts are largerly supported, they encourage, and inspire people. This post? Difficult...very controversial...possible ramifications for her work environment. Do her colleagues agree with her? Maybe, maybe not. So for me, it's not that I was looking to her for an "answer", I was looking to her as the leader that she is. And she continues to blow me away in her strength and resolve, regardless of whether or not I always agree with her.