It's never a good idea to talk to the press when your feelings are raw and Lillo's are plainly so. I don't think the article shows her in a favorable light and I don't think it makes her case for her. I just don't think she's a "diva" for feeling that her bro and his intended could have picked another day back in the day.
I was responding to a comment that made a generic reference to bosses. However, I don't think a dancer should be professionally penalized merely for saying, even to the boss, that she doesn't love dancing anymore - unless it seems to be showing up in that work, which may have been the case with Stafford Lillo.
"Wage labor" is not necessarily unrewarding labor even if it's not your be-all and end-all. It is quite true, however, that dancers aren't in it for the money because it's not that kind of profession. Still, they are workers who get paid.