Dee -
Thanks for reporting and letting us know what you saw. It didn't sound like you were being patronizing at all. (I know that in my own case, the higher the level of dancing the more picky I often get, because I feel that the criticism is constructive)
It's never easy to comment when one is acquainted with the people involved. Most of us in that situation do exactly what you did, talk honestly and fairly about what was positive and if the overall impression of the performance was negative, often don't say anything. I've been on both sides of that situation, where more than one writer who came to see a concert of mine also knew me as a colleague.
This wouldn't be right or ethical for a newspaper critic or someone whose first duty is to report whatever it is that they saw, but it's the right compromise for others. Just be fair and let people know where you're coming from, especially that you know the people you're writing about.
Keep posting, please, and not just about Boston Ballet! As a side note, we have amnesty on spelling errors here

but if you're addicted to spell check, consider writing your post in your wordprocessor and cutting and pasting it to the site. I often do that with longer posts.
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